Your Loneliness Makes Sense.

Our human species has lived through a collective trauma: modernization and separation from land. We have convinced ourselves we don’t need each other, but in reality our mammal bodies are made for relationship.

Mammals have GRIEF/PANIC emotional circuitry in our brains, and when baby mammals are without their kin, their village, their primary care-giver, the land, that circuitry goes into full alarm (anxiety, sadness, depression and loneliness are all related symptoms).

But in our culture of the heroic rugged individualist, its not ok to admit we are lonely. We shame ourselves for our perfectly natural response to the alienation of the modern world. But we can learn something different. More below.

What is self-resonance (and why does it matter?)

What is self-resonance (and why does it matter?)

We are given a sense that we make sense (or not) by our mothering people in a key phase of attachment bonding that occurs between 0 and 4 months old. We can use self-resonance to re-pattern attachment disruptions that may have occurred, and build a healthy secure...

Healing Loneliness: Moving out of Avoidant Attachment

Healing Loneliness: Moving out of Avoidant Attachment

The hallmark of having been raised by left hemisphere parents is avoidant attachment, which often manifests as a deep, lifelong loneliness, a tendency to push others away and a struggle to find life’s meaning. What is attachment?Attachment isn't simply a code word for...

How marijuana impacts the brain and helps us with reactivity

How marijuana impacts the brain and helps us with reactivity

When I was 12 years old, I tried smoking marijuana for the first time. It was sunset in the winter in interior Alaska, where the colors of the sun going down are dusty pink and orange. I stood for a moment in front of a birch trunk, seeing the gold and white and...

Guided meditation: Transform your brain with self-warmth

Guided meditation: Transform your brain with self-warmth

  My mission is to support self-warmth, joy and compassion by sharing the science of how our brains can change, I want to share a practice with you. Have you got 6 minutes? Find a spot to sit or lay down, and give yourself the gift of warm breath and sweet,...

Healing Addiction With Unconscious Contract Work

Healing Addiction With Unconscious Contract Work

In order to belong, survive or honor our families, we make unconscious and silent agreements with ourselves, our caregivers, or the world, which can keep us feeling stuck, small and constrained. When working with addictions and compulsive behaviors, we can use unconscious contract work to touch on, bring healing to, and release ourselves from agreements that are no longer serving us.

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Build a Better Brain, One Meditation at a Time

 

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Available in Spanish and English.

You'll learn:

> Why learning about neuroscience helps us heal

> How to grow a nicer brain (hint: it's NOT mindfulness meditation!)

> Three ways to make self-kindness easier

> Why reassurance doesn't help us heal, and how to use resonance instead

> Why your inner voice is so cruel (and what to do about it!) 

 

 

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Healing Codependency is Possible

 

Begin the journey of self-resonance to heal from self-hate (aka: toxic shame)

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