Social animals, including humans, have 4 main tendencies in the way they bond with others. They have an easy time coming and going, they have a visibly hard time with separation, they have a visibly hard time with reunion, and they are utterly unpredictable with outbursts of emotional or physical violence or of dissociation. How do we identify our client’s patterns or the patterns in their constellations in ways which help us do the work we want to do for them?