When Our Grief Is Blocked: A Creative Writing Workshop

$125.00$400.00

In order to express ourselves creatively, we need to be able to be realistic about what’s true and what’s possible.

For example, we might want it to be true that as soon as we put our words down on paper, they are so beautiful that they stun other people into silence and we can immediately receive the shared appreciation of the beauty of our work.

But if we stay there–in that place of unreality–then nothing will ever be good enough. Our creative expression will never be what it could be, because we’re stuck wanting it to be superhuman.

On the days where we want superhumanness, it’s impossible to write.

This longing for perfection is one of the elements that creates writer’s block, because we can’t be perfect. And good writing isn’t perfect.

When our PANIC/GRIEF circuit is unregulated, it’s impossible to know the difference between what is true and what we wish were true. We relate to our surroundings through denial and daydreams. And once we begin to see through the clouds of denial, then anger and resentment can arise, and we are living in the world of “This shouldn’t be happening!” rather than in the world of, “This is happening, and I am devastated,” or “This is happening, and I can speak the truth about it.”

Allowing ourselves to feel that devastation can feel overwhelming when our PANIC/GRIEF circuit is blocked for many reasons: we aren’t biologically wired to grieve alone, we haven’t developed the neurons that allow us to feel grief without hardening towards it and ourselves, we haven’t fully developed the warm allyship of self-resonance.

In order to be realistic, we have to have a PANIC/GRIEF circuit that allows us to mourn that the world is not as we wish it were. It’s only once we are able to mourn all that we wish were true, but isn’t, that we can be and express who we truly are.

This is because being able to hold the truth of life, rather than deny it, is vital for our capacity to be creative.

Over the course of six weeks, we will work with the PANIC/GRIEF circuit through unconscious contract work, time travel, warm accompaniment and an ongoing exploration into the neuroscience of what makes grief safe. Together we will take tiny bites each week with optional writing prompts and optional discussion points, for people to be able to claim whatever small bit of mourning there is to do each day that we meet, and we will often experience the movement into joy. This exploration will provide each of us tools and thoughtful inquiry into our grieving, our celebrations, and our truth-telling as writers, artists, and creative livers of life.

Experience what’s possible when you explore and create within a resonant and welcoming space that honors the uniqueness of your truth and your voice in this 6-session series dedicated to creative process and exploration.

Description

Where?

The course will meet via zoom. We welcome participants from all time zones who wish to learn asynchronously for some or all of the sessions. Recordings and visuals will be made available to those who are registered for the live program (typically available within 72 hours of the live session).

When?

This 6-session series runs from May 7, 2024 through June 18, 2024 with classes meeting each Tuesday morning from 8:00 AM – 9:20 AM Pacific Time (To convert to your time zone, please click here)

What You’ll Learn:

May 7, 2024: Intro to the PANIC/GRIEF Circuit: the surprise of continual self-accompaniment
May 14, 2024: Bringing support to shame and alarmed aloneness
May 28, 2024: Resolving trauma that stops us from mourning
June 4, 2024: Ways that we stop mourning with contracts
June 11, 2024: Deepening self-warmth with mourning
June 18, 2024: Celebrating and integrating PANIC/GRIEF

*skipping May 21, 2024

Who Is This Course For?

For writers, artists, explorers and creatives looking for a resonant space in which to support their creative expression. The creative process work that we’ll explore in this class is for anyone involved in, or longing to be involved in, any kind of creative pursuit.

What to Expect?

A warm space that creates room for the flow from thought into expression, support and resonant feedback, all in service of unblocking your creativity and more fluid expression.

In each 80-minute class, we will:

  • Begin with a free writing period
  • Explore the relational neuroscience connected to the PANIC/GRIEF circuit, and how it impacts the ability to express and tell our truth.
  • Offer a resonance exercise or demonstration to support the movement toward free expression
  • Continue with a second free writing period
  • Create space for sharing and resonant responses to each other’s work

This Course Includes Resonant Support

Get assistant support during classes – experience resonant support from experienced practitioners when you need it during class times. Often, this work can have unexpected depth and touch on deeply held subconscious awareness and pain. Getting support when we need it most helps participants to integrate, regulate, and have a felt experience of the transformative power of resonance.

Here’s what a previous participant shared about having assistant support available during courses: “Thank you so much for offering the in-class 1:1 support with a resonance assistant as part of the course. This opportunity has gone a long way to provide me with a personalized felt sense of the impact of this process when working with a trained and skilled person to a greater depth than I had experienced on my own. Such a gift.” ~ Dorothy

Cost

$125-400

  • This course is set up so that participants can contribute what they can.
  • Please choose a variation that considers your financial resources as well as the contribution you would like to offer Sarah and her team.
  • The standard tuition for this course is $300.  If you choose to pay more, your contribution will go toward supporting those with fewer resources to attend.

Continuing Education (CEUs)

We are delighted to offer 8 CEU hours for psychologists and social workers for this course ($30 additional fee). Chicago Counseling Associates has been approved by the Illinois Department of Financial and Professional Regulation to sponsor continuing education for social workers and psychologists. CCA maintains responsibility for this program and its content.

Please Note: Live attendance is required to receive CEUs.

Additional information

Tuition Options

Participant Tuition – $400, Participant Tuition – $350, Participant Tuition – $300, Participant Tuition – $250, Participant Tuition – $200, Participant Tuition – $150, Participant Tuition – $125

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